Favour

1. Asking for Help: When facing difficulties, it's tempting to seek help immediately, but it's equally crucial to weigh your options and try to solve problems independently first. Understand that asking for help implies an obligation to reciprocate someday. Keep in mind that nothing is truly free, and avoid assuming that people are obliged to assist you. Be mindful of your requests and the potential impact on your relationships.

2. Offering Help: If you find yourself in a position to help others, always do so within your means. Your assistance doesn't have to be solely monetary; lending a hand or offering emotional support can be equally valuable. Don't expect something in return, but provide help because you genuinely can. A small gesture can make a significant difference in someone's life.

3. Reciprocity: When someone does extend help to you, be prepared to reciprocate their kindness when the opportunity arises. If your request for assistance is declined, accept it gracefully and consider the reason behind the refusal. Use such moments as a catalyst for self-improvement and growth. Remember, setbacks can lead to creative problem-solving and eventual success.

4. Paying It Forward: An essential aspect of the favor exchange is paying it forward. When someone lends you a helping hand, consider helping another person in need, no matter how small the gesture. This practice can create a ripple effect of positivity and build a stronger, more compassionate community.

Don’t ask for favour as if you don’t have to pay back – In the case of trouble, try not ask for favour unnecessarily, study the options, don't hurriedly ask for help before even trying to solve, as you have to pay back, sometime, and you are obligated to do so, nothing is free. Don't assume that people have to do it for you, nobody owe you anything, neither would you want to owe somebody something. At the point when someone needs the helping hands do you have that to be a helping hand, so you are going out up another sad story why you can't. Friendship sometimes sour because of this.

If you are the provider, help within your means, if possible, don’t expect a return if possible, you give the helping because you are well able, not necessary monetary, you effort to get people off the hook, even by pushing the wheel chair up the ramp means a lot to another.

If you are expecting someone to help you, be ready to return their kindness. Don't feel bad if you are turn down, there's a reason, and also it's a call where you have to get up. There are few success story where one get reject, the focus is shifted to solve the problem, and eventually solved the problem.

Pass the favour, someone gave you the helping, pass it on, help someone else too, doesn't have to be big. Pass it on.

Mother Teresa once said : "If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one."