Leave The High School

1. Reflecting on the Past: As we look back on our high school days, it becomes clear that many of us experienced moments of bullying and humiliation. These memories often linger, causing pain and emotional distress. It's important to acknowledge that these wounds are not always easy to heal, but sharing our stories with others can be a powerful step towards healing.

2. The Power of Sharing: One of the most effective ways to overcome the negative effects of bullying is by opening up and talking about our experiences. By sharing our stories, we can break free from the weight of these memories and shatter the bully's image in our minds. Personal growth often begins when we let others in and allow them to offer support and perspective.

3. Personal Triumph: I, too, have confronted my own memories of high school bullying. There was a moment when a fellow student, Nikki, approached me in the restroom after my close friend had been expelled. This encounter haunted me for a while, but when my friend returned and stood up to Nikki, the situation improved. While some memories may fade, it's crucial to recognize that not all stories have negative endings. Despite the fear we experienced, we eventually overcame it.

4. The Changing Landscape: High school experiences today are vastly different from those of the past. The younger generation faces new challenges and dangers, often influenced by pervasive media and societal pressures. Parents must be vigilant and attentive to their children's behavior, especially when they exhibit unusual signs such as avoiding contact with family or displaying quick tempers at home.

5. Recognizing Warning Signs: To protect our children from the emotional turmoil of bullying, it is crucial for parents to be proactive. Pay attention to changes in your child's behavior, as they might be indicators of distress. Watch for signs like avoidance of family interactions, increased aggression towards younger siblings, or sudden mood swings. By being vigilant, we can offer support and guidance when our children need it most.

Leave High school – (After recalling those days I start to understand) – many people are bullied and humiliated in some manner, it leaves deep scars and pain. Some of this thought are not easy to clear, however if can switch it by sharing with other people about it, we stop that bully image.) I have cleared mine. We are innocent then, didn’t watch what we say, or action taken was not too considerate.

I remembered this guy Nikki  talked to me in the toilet as my good friend was expelled, it haunts me for a while, and I recalled my friend came back and told him, he will be back anytime when I reach out. Some of this is faded but did have a good ending, however, due to the fear, we have actually been overcome by the fear factor.

You might not remember too well, now it’s the time to pay a little more attention to your kids, the generation is different now, very different, dangerous and ignorant. Some of this people are very influence by media. Do look out when your kids behave strangely, especially avoiding contact with parents, and temper at home is quick. Look out for tell-tale sign, very aggressive towards the younger siblings.