Open To The Present

1. The Past as Milestones, Not Anchors: The past is a collection of experiences and memories that have shaped who we are today. It's essential to view it as a series of milestones rather than as an anchor holding us back. Dwelling on past regrets or missed opportunities only hinders our growth. Instead, consider the past as a teacher, providing valuable lessons that guide you towards a better future.

2. The Illusion of Perpetual Success: The pursuit of success can become a never-ending cycle. One million dollars may seem like an insurmountable goal until you achieve it, only to realize that you now desire a second million. This insatiable hunger for more can prevent us from appreciating what we have. Remember that true contentment comes from within, not from external achievements.

3. The Wisdom of "Enough": It's crucial to ask yourself, "What is enough?" The answer varies from person to person and isn't solely defined by material wealth. Embrace the idea that sufficiency is not a fixed point but a state of mind. Cultivate gratitude for what you have, rather than constantly yearning for more.

4. Letting Go of the Need to Control the Future: The future is uncertain and uncontrollable. Worrying about it only adds unnecessary stress to your life. Instead, focus on the present moment, and trust that the future will unfold as it should. Make positive choices today, and the future will naturally follow suit.

5. Living a Fulfilling Present: The present is a gift, and it's up to you to make the most of it. Embrace the concept of mindfulness—being fully present in each moment. Be kind, be helpful, and be grateful for the opportunities that come your way. By living well and authentically in the present, you pave the way for a brighter future.

6. Passing the Torch: As you age and accumulate wisdom, consider passing on your knowledge and responsibilities to the next generation. Success isn't solely measured by individual achievements but by the positive impact you leave behind. Mentorship and succession planning can ensure that your legacy continues.

Open to the present – don’t live in the pass, future fear. Don’t look back, the glory days are just markers and milestone of life. You cannot always be that champ, or you cannot be looking why didn’t you make it. (If you were born in the 1920’s and you have a few shares of Coca-cola, you will be a rich man. You know you can’t, even your granddad missed it). There are this opportunity where some strike it so well, and that same instant someone lost the whole fortune.

You will never be happy if you have that first million, as you will want the second. I had a friend who told me, when you have that first, automatically you will dive in for the second and third and on and on. You will never feel enough. Quietly in my mind, I ask, Define enough? I also knew a successful uncle in his seventy, why are you still coming to work? Look I have this 100 families to look after, I have to. Is there a secret that you cannot review for someone to take over?

The present is what we have, and making the most out of it, the past is behind, you can’t change it, the future not for us to decided, just be nice and the things will unfold by itself, live well, live good, be happy, be nice, be helpful, be kind, be nice and that is all is what’s about. What do you think?