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The journey towards self-improvement often begins with understanding our motivations. What is it that drives us to repeat certain actions, even if they don't necessarily bring us happiness? Is it the prospect of financial gain, the feeling of accomplishment, or something deeper? By examining our true motivations, we can make more informed decisions about our life's direction.
One of the most common motivators in our lives is the pursuit of financial success. Money can indeed provide security, comfort, and opportunities, but it's essential to assess whether the chase for a sizable income is truly aligned with our values and long-term goals. Sometimes, the desire for wealth can lead to a disproportionate attachment to our work, potentially compromising our overall well-being.
Becoming too attached to our careers can have both personal and professional repercussions. It's vital to ask ourselves whether we are sinking too deeply into our work, neglecting other aspects of our lives that matter. The potential harm can manifest in the form of strained relationships, declining physical and mental health, and a sense of unfulfillment.
Amidst the pursuit of professional success, it's crucial to consider alternatives. Are there opportunities for a more balanced approach to life? Can we find fulfillment in other areas without compromising our financial security? Exploring these alternatives can help us discover a path that harmonizes our personal and professional lives.
Our actions don't exist in isolation; they affect those around us. It's essential to consider the impact of our choices on our loved ones and colleagues. Striking a balance between personal and professional commitments can foster healthier relationships and create a more positive environment for everyone involved.
The inspiration for this reflection came from a friend who made a life-altering decision. He chose to quit his demanding job, opting for part-time work that allowed him to be present for his growing family. His decision, motivated by the desire to witness his children's upbringing, serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of finding balance in life.
Rewind your thought – write down, what motivate you. What really makes you want to do again and again; does it make you feel good? It has a sizable income. Will you be too attached if you sink yourself deeper? Is there alternative? Will it be harmful? Will it cause any harm to somebody? Well, this are just guidelines towards your new plan, you will be able to envisage something along the way. There will be someone else doing instead of me, I know. What we are working on now is not the monetary gain, but your mental gain, it might work for them, maybe not you. Sometimes the money part is the thing that get you so attached.
This idea come to me when a friend suddenly decided to quit his job, works a few hours a day, and 2-3 days a week and gets 3 times the pay of a typical salaried worker. He hasn’t been saving much as his third child is arriving, I asked him why? “I didn’t not witness the growing up of my first 2 child, all I know is work, and rest, working as a professional diver is not easy, and due to work there is too many constrains, in terms of an emergency, the lead time to be home is couple of day, can’t afford it. Good for him, while he is still tough, he is still able to find something else.